Food and Fun

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 Well, same ole same ole today. We went for our morning walk and came back in for breakfast. Leia wasn't too interested in eating so I gave her a piece of kibble. She spit it out. Gave it back to her; she spit it out again. The third time she acted like I'd given her a completely different kind of food and woofed it down. I tried to figure it out and then it hit me. It was wet. I put two handfuls of water over her kibble, and set it down in front of her. Now, understand for the past week she has been leaving about a 4th of her food in the bowl and just not eating with much oomph. Today she cleaned the bowl. I put water on her dinner too and yet again, the bowl was shining. Ha!  I've figured it out and now I'll be sure she's eating enough.

We went out for a walk in the evening and discovered there was a wedding taking place at the pool. We watched for just a minute and then went back to the tennis court for a run around. Leia burned some energy and did well with coming back to me. I didn't even have treats this time but apparently love was enough.

After dinner Leia was playing with Mr Penguin and shaking him around when suddenly she lost her grip and he went flying across the room and on top of her crate. She immediately looked at me as if to say "oops, how the heck did that happen!?" I retrieved it for her but it was cute, she was both dumbfounded and worried she was somehow in trouble. Nah, nothing broke hun, you're good!

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Facing her Fears

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Well our morning walk went very well. We had several bikes pass us and she was very happy to meet a nice couple who wanted to greet her. I of course asked them to let her sniff their hands first and they were happy to do so.

First Ear Cleaning:
We came home and it was ear cleaning time (not just drops, cleaning). She did a great job and occasionally gave me a protesting look but didn't make a peep.  We were able to clean them pretty well and get the drops good and deep in there. Proud of my girl! I was all worried this would be a big fight and right in the beginning she did try to back away once, but I called her back and she realized I wasn't trying to traumatize her, and was even willing to pet her through the whole thing.

Leia meets the Vacuum:
Our next big scary event was that I needed to vacuum the floor. I knew she wasn't going to like this beast so I put the leash around my waist and hooked her to me. First I let her meet the vacuum while it was off, then once she seemed ok with it we cut it on and let it sit stationary. She tried to back up but the leash stopped it. I encouraged her to come back closer and she did. She seems to trust me a lot and knows that I am not going to call her toward something which could hurt her. We then vacuumed the house together which she wasn't a fan of but did. Every time she stood with me and didn't try to back away she got a treat. I figure if she gets treats when she is a good girl near the vacuum maybe it will help ease her fear of it.

We cleaned most of the living room together and then walked her past it a few times while it was sitting, on, and then off. We put it away, I praised her, and then let her go. She didn't bolt and seemed to understand that I wasn't asking her to love the vacuum, I was asking her to not run away while I was cleaning. I doubt she is gonna be best friends with it any time soon, but we'll keep doing this so she gets used to it and realizes the vacuum is nothing to fear. We've been doing this with golf carts too, and the big dumpster as well as a Uhaul truck. She is uncertain of  them so I walk up to it and touch it while talking to her kindly. we then walk around it or back and forth until she isn't trying to swing wide or run away from it.

We've had to do this on our walks too. Originally, when cars passed us from behind she'd try to speed up. I've been working on correcting it each time, and even giving a preventative "shh" command (which means slow down) and now she seems to be calming down and accepting that cars passing isn't something that should phase her. I'm glad she didn't try to fight it, but at the same time, I don't want her to be so afraid that vacuuming becomes an exercise in fear.

6:00 PM - LEIA IS LEARNING HOW TO PLAY FETCH!!!!

After Dinner we went out and played with Mr. Penguin on the Tennis court. We got about 6 throws in before she was ready to just let him sit there. Bringing him back needs some polish (she forgets a lot) but it was a good way to burn off some energy in the evening.

By bed time she Climbed right in to her crate when I told her "In." I must admit I am proud of her.

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But... I Want my Wednesday Walk....

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"Mom, we are going for our walk... right?"

Back from our walk,
I had to change back into PJs

Well, this morning it was raining again and I really was tempted to not do the big walk. It was rainy, I was tired, and I thought "well, maybe today we'll just go out, do business and come back." So we walked out and she peed and I began to walk back to the apartment. Leia followed by looked at me like "wait... you mean we're not going?" Oh man is she a heart breaker. 

So we walked back to the apartment and I picked up my Jacket. The walk was on. Luckily the rain subsided about 4 minutes into our walk. She was very good about walking near me (except when we passed the big dead fish someone just left in the grass. I mean it was big {like fish market dinner for 4 size}and they just left it!). Leia thought "hey now, I could really go for some 2 day old fish!" but with two little corrections she agreed that kibble at home might be a better choice.

As we were walking home I saw a lady in her car at a stop light watching us walk. She was smiling (probably because Leia is adorable!) and so I gave a little wave. Who knows, maybe by walking, even in the rain, someone else will walk their dog today, or brave the rain to give their pet what they need.

"Steps don't scare me!"

I love this picture of her!

I also did a confidence booster with Leia today and had her walk the flights of stairs in our apartment building. At first she was hesitant but as we went up and down she seemed to realize "hey these aren't so scary" and got the hang of it. We also took a few more pictures today and she was very good during our little armature photo shoot (just keep the love and petting coming!).

I love my stunning girl!

Around 5 we went out to the tennis court again and practice recall and ran Leia around.  Leia seems to like our "come to me" game and if I get too far away she runs to me. At one point I knelt down, opened my arms and said "Come here Leia" and she ran, absolutely barreled toward me and stopped just short of pummeling me over and buried her head in my chest. She is such a sweetie! We also practiced a little sitting and laying down in a more distracting environment. It took her a while to sit the first time and a good bit of coaxing to lay down (especially since the tennis court floor is a weird texture for her) but she did both.  Good girl!

Photo-shoot Pics!

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First Vet Visit!

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So wait? Why are we here?

Well, this morning we got up, went for a walk, fed Leia and hopped in the car.  Today was a big day for her: First vet visit. She did great in the car and walked right in and waited politely (minus knocking a box of cat toys off a shelf). She met the staff and was pretty good in the waiting room. She wasn't so hot on getting on the scale but all in all it went pretty well.

We went back and talked a little about her health. I mentioned her sneezing and pawing at her ears/face so that meant it was time for round two of testing. Leia did NOT like her fecal test/temp taking and got loud about it which meant it was time for a "party hat" (translation: Here's your muzzle!)

She whined and cried during the whole thing but didn't really snarl or try to bite so I think it is mostly fear related. I've noticed Leia is very sensitive about having her butt sniffed, probed etc. I wonder if she's had a bad experience with that?

We also had her ears tested and discovered she has a yeast infection in her ears. She did not like getting them cleaned annnnd now I get to do this at home with no spare hands every other day and do drops every day. OH boy this ought to be fun. Plus we don't have a muzzle... but I have instructions as to how to make one with a leash so if need be we'll do that until we can get one.

We talked about the fact that we need to socialize her a bit more (especially since she growled at a pit puppy). She seems to be a dominant personality with other dogs and I'll have to work to keep her respect and obedience. She's a sweet girl but she really does think she is Princess Leia and should be in charge (and would probably take charge if I let her.) Anyhow, it is still very hit or miss with introductions, sometimes she is great, sometimes she growls. She is good with people though, just nervous.

Her new penguin.

Part of me is hesitant to write those things about Leia because I know some will judge her for being nervous or having trouble with socialization, but she IS a good girl, she is just learning the rules and how to be a dog in her new home.

 For being a good girl at the vet the ladies gave her a new Penguin toy that squeaks. She is still not sure what to make of this little guy but is starting to show an interest. It takes her a while to understand a toy is hers and she can play with it but I think she'll get it.
 
It's going to be more important than ever for us to work on our budget as this visit with 6 months of preventative, ear meds, and tests, ran us a whopping $300.  OUCH! Then again preventatives run high anyhow. Soon (after a second negative heartworm test) we will be able to cut the price of preventatives by getting one combined preventative instead of two different ones. We have a follow-up in 2 weeks to double check her ears.

New Squeaky toy.

Around 4 today we went out to the tennis court again. I tied Leia's leash to her collar for my own security, even though I know it wouldn't make much of a difference if she got away. We walked and ran around as well as worked on recall. I brought a few broken pieces of a milk bone with me and we'd walk around and then I'd wait until she got distracted or wandered away and then call her back cheerfully. When she came over I'd love on her and give her a little bite of cookie. She seemed to like this game and I think it reinforces that coming to me is a positive thing. I was a little worried because the court has a few gaps at the bottom of the fence but most are small enough she can't fit through and the one that might be close I always steer her away from. She seemed to have a great time and did pretty well with recall.

"Ok, he squeaks but I like him any way!"

Tonight I was a little worried because in the half hour after I put Leia's food down she showed zero interest. I finally walked over with the bowl and a pellet and had her try eating one piece. She spit it out twice but then caught on to it being food. She's eating pretty well now  but it wasn't her normal behavior. She isn't a ravenous eater but she normally eats at least some portion right away and then might walk off. I know she knew where her food was because she saw me pour it, put it in her kennel, and even walked in and saw it. I think I just had to get her started and then she was ready to eat. She didn't quite finish it all but she normally doesn't (like 7/10 times).

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Mundane Monday

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Well, nothing too big happened today. We did our normal morning walk and were promptly DRENCHED on the way home. I dried off Leia and then had to change clothes. We left when the rain lifted for a bit but 15 minutes in the heavens opened up and we got a decent shower. I am pretty sure the people driving by thought we (well, probably me) were crazy for walking in the rain. I mean, it was pretty much raining sideways, but Leia looked up at me with a smile and I just kept on smiling back. Heck with the rain, we have a walking date to keep!

Most of the day was uneventful. On a second walk (the one intended to wear her out before I had to go to class) we met up with another dog and she actually acted pretty dominant, but then again the little dog we met (which looked like a black pit bull to me) dropped to his stomach and promptly wet himself... I really felt bad for this dog... It wasn't until we walked on that I noticed he had hair loss (hopefully not contagious) and a few scars... I can't help but wonder what his story is... was he always this shy or was he beaten? Was cowering and submissive peeing his only way of protecting himself? Was he a fight dog? I feel  really bad for this little dog... and his owner didn't even clean up after him (even though that's a $50 charge in our apartments... ) If you have a space in your prayers tonight, send one out to little black dog. I hope his life gets better...

On our walk we also met another sweet dog lover. He knelt down and let Leia sniff before petting her. We talked about her story and he loved on her. One of the great things about having a dog is you get to meet a lot more of the neighbors for two reasons: 1. Most people like dogs and those that don't ask you to keep your dog away from them. 2. You are out an about more (I've already lost a little weight from all of our walks!).

Tonight I did Leia's normal routine and she got her Kong before I left. She did cry a few times while I was gone (I skyped in about 4 time while I was out, in 2 of them she was crying) but not too loudly from what I could tell. She seems to know I go out and come back, she doesn't panic the entire time, but it seems more like she is just mourning my leaving. It is no longer her standing and crying but more of her just laying there and pouting. When I came home she was finishing up her Kong and I was greeted by the thump thump of her tail. I did my normal calm welcome home and let her out a bit after I'd been home a bit.

"Free!"

Tomorrow will be an adventure: Leia's first vet appointment!   I am hoping we will get a vet who is willing to take a little time with her and let her get settled. I'll take cookies so she can get rewards. We'll be getting our preventatives and a basic check up to make sure she is good and healthy. I don't think we need any shots (except maybe a dog flu follow-up/booster) but we'll see. Hope all will go well and she wont be too nervous.

Adorable Bedtime update: I was calling Leia over to get in her crate for bed time and I realized why she wasn't coming over. She was stuck under the coffee table. While she was resting she'd scooted around and got herself wedged under the table and looked at me like "Maaaa! The table's got me..." I encouraged her to crawl and she figured it out. I gave her cuddles in repayment for laughing at her adorable expense. Poor baby girl. Wish I'd caught that on camera!

Additional Video: Leia Being Cute

 

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Sunday Snake!

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So I am really considering biking with Leia. I like to bike (but don't own one right now) and I think she could learn to enjoy getting to run along side. It would also make it easier for me to help burn her extra energy.
A few links for my own reference and for anyone who might also be interested in biking with their pup:

How to Ride a Bicycle with Your Dog
What is the difference in the WalkyDog & Bike Tow Leash?

The downside to this whole thing, is of course, the price. The two "bike bars" (the thing that keeps your dog attached and out from under the wheels) of choice are a bit expensive. The "Walky Dog Bike Leash" is about $50 and the "Running-Dog Bike Tow Leash" is about $150 (ouch). It might take some saving but hey, we can make due until we can ride together.

8:30PM - Thank GOD Leia is good on a leash... It's been raining all day and as we walked outside and turned the corner and there, in front of us, a snake was whipping across the sidewalk.

It wasn't huge but was probably a foot and 5 inches long and looked like it had a viper's head (the arrow head with rounded back). Not sure which species it was as the light was not in our favor but I am so glad she stopped with me because otherwise the night could have ended painfully for us both. That snake looked agitated and wasn't just cruising. We carefully steered around it and enjoyed the rest of our walk but hey, this is one more reason to lead your dog and not let your dog lead.

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One Week Home

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Ok, well technically yesterday (fri) was her one week "home-iversary " and already I can see a big difference in her. She is gaining more confidence and is also learning how I operate. That doesn't always mean she agrees with me but she doesn't have to like it, she has to adjust. For example, on walks she is continuing to pull more and I continue to correct. We may have to switch to a different collar when walking so she regains respect for my commands. She isn't dragging me anywhere but I don't want it to get to that point.

In the house she is getting it but I can tell I need to find more ways of burning her energy whether it is putting her on a treadmill or learning how to  bike with her (since roller blades aren't so great for my knees).

Leia decided to press her fur through the bars.

Some things I have learned about Leia:

• She eats about 5lbs of food a week (~20lbs per month)
• She generally pees twice a day and poops once
• She will demand attention, you have to demand space.
• She is uncertain about new situations, be certain and she will adjust
  (but it can take a while)

We continue to establish boundaries and commands. She is learning more commands such as

• "Sit" - the basic sit down
• "down"  - lie down
•  "back" - which essentially translates to "back off, I want my space." 
• "wait" - which translates to "we're pausing, you should too" 
  (this is also a safety command, and as we approach a point where we are going to cross a street I pause and give the "wait" command)
• "come" - "we're moving now"
• "stay" - which means "wait here, I'll tell you when you can go" 
• "alright" - which means "you are released from your stay"
• "Leave it" - which means "don't mess with that"
• "Out" - which means "Get out, you aren't allowed in here"

She is really getting the "back" and "out"commands, is doing well with "sit" and "down",  and is doing ok with  "wait", "leave it", and "come" (sometimes with protest but she doesn't get to continue until she obeys {or with come, I will drag you off if I have to}). As for "stay" and "alright"  she is just starting these commands and progress is slow but that doesn't mean I am letting up.
Also some of these have hand signals with them (especially sit, stay,  back, out, and down.).

This may seem like a lot of commands but there is one command which is the nail in the coffin and can make her stop just about anything "eh!" This is our "no" command. It is one sharp direct command which translates to just about what it is "stop", "I don't think so", "you stop that right now", "I disapprove of what you are doing", or most simply "no!" When she hears this she is learning that she is in trouble and better just be quiet, back off, and stop whatever it was she was doing at the time.

Leia is still learning her name, what play is, how to entertain herself, and that just because I make eye contact doesn't mean "I really want to pet you right now." Don't get me wrong, sometimes I want to pet her, but when I do I'll let her know. Until then I should be able to look at her without her bulldozing my hand to get pets.

2:00 PM - I furminated Leia again. She was much more comfortable with it this time (last time we really only did her back, this time we got legs, tummy and neck.) and we got a LOT more excess fur. It's really the feathering on her back legs which is almost crimped. We spent about 15 min on it and she was loving it.

Then we went and got the mail and played a little bit on the tennis court (working on recall, which so far she is decent at {it isn't immediate but she lumbers over} and it isn't a game of "haha can't get my leash"). We'll work on making it a better recall [especially since my only reward was affection, which is good because at least I'll always have that with me].

I think she will like biking, if I can find a cheap bike. She was much more open to running with me today on the tennis court and kept a pretty good spacing. I'm hopeful that we can do that because I think it would be good for her health and mine.

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Cesar's Way Starts Today

Enjoying "the walk"

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Well, after watching our Cesar DVD I did pick up a few things which we are trying. Today started our morning walk regiment. In about half an hour we walked close to a mile, then came home and I fed her. She's beat (more so than our normal walks) and I am hot and sweaty but It's good for both of our health.

On our way out we came across what seemed like an early morning murder scene where a mourning dove did not come out on top. All that was there was a pile of feathers, but Leia looked at me as if to say "Uh, Mom... Can we not go over there?" 

Mourning Dove Murder... Sorry Birdy

We moved on and took our first walk outside of the complex. She walked very well and even impressed some drivers as she waited for them to turn before she crossed with me. Good girl!

Here are the guidelines we are following (the following is a quote from Cesar's Way: 6 Tips for Mastering the Dog Walk)

Ok, so she was walking a bit too far ahead in
this picture but it was also taken during the
first 10 paces of our walk outside the complex.

1. Walk in front of your dog. - Walking in front of your dog allows you to be seen as the pack leader. Conversely, if your dog controls you on the walk, he’s the pack leader. You should be the first one out the door and the first one in. Your dog should be beside or behind you during the walk.

2. Use a short dog leash. - This allows you to have more control. Attaching the leash to the very top of the neck can help you more easily communicate, guide, and correct your dog. If you need additional help, consider the Illusion collar. Always keep your dog's safety in mind when giving corrections.

3. Give yourself enough time for the dog walk. - Dogs, like humans, are diurnal, so taking walks in the morning is ideal. I recommend setting aside thirty minutes to a full hour. The specific needs of each dog differ. Consult your vet and keep an eye on your dog's behavior to see if his needs are being met.

4. How to reward your dog during the walk. - After your dog has maintained the proper state of mind, reward him by allowing him to relieve himself and sniff around. Then you need to decide when reward time is over. It should always be less than the time spent focused on the walk.

5. Keep leading, even after the walk. - When you get home, don't stop leading. Have your dog wait patiently while you put away his leash or take off your shoes.

6. Reward your dog after the walk. - By providing a meal after the walk, you have allowed your dog to "work" for food and water.

And don’t forget to set a good example by always picking up after your dog!

So far we are complying with most of the "rules" and if Leia has walked at my side for a good while I'll chat with her and pet her on the head, as affection seems to be her reward of choice (second best, food!). Today, in the afternoon, we are expecting thunder storms (of course, it has also said that the past two days but so far, only rain.) I guess we will see if it happens.

She is falling back into some bad habits and whined a bit last night and this morning. I didn't give it any attention except one "eh!" but really, tonight the squirt bottle is coming to bed with me. Just because she is comfortable in her new home does not mean she can whine at me to get her way.

4:00PM - Leia has been expanding our bubble a little and was content to sleep in the bedroom for a bit today. She seems to behave her self pretty well on her own as long as I'm not actually gone. She is currently chilling in her crate (by choice! second time today). I think she might be able to sense a storm coming as she has been pacing a little and couldn't decide whether to sleep in the bedroom, on the floor beside me, or in her crate. Hoping she will do fine if it storms. 

11:00PM - Oh my lord Florida... weather 90% chance of precipitation and thunderstorms... almost sunny evening with one shower... gosh darn it how do I just know that the first storm will be on a school night... *sigh*
Leia is learning how to play with toys and how to entertain herself. I wonder if she ever really had toys in her previous home. She seemed to have no clue what to do with a Nylabone but now she has not only caught on but is also starting to chew on it without prompting (the first few times I had to kinda encourage her to try chewing on it.)

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A Wonderful Thursday

Relaxing to the sound of the lawn crew,
resting her head on my backpack.

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8:40AM - Well Leia just met the lawn crew (from inside the house). She got a little growly (mainly cause she was concerned about what this new sound was). The first time they came around and she got upset and gave a little growl and I basically told her "eh eh" knock it off  and the second time they came around she looked  at the glass door (I don't think she could actually see the crew but she could hear where they were coming from) but didn't make a sound. I thought it was a good start.

She also did well when we went for our morning walk. I am thinking about testing out the Furminator on her today as she is starting to shed a bit (not a ton, but just enough that I'd like to slow it down)

12:15PM - Just Furminated Leia. We went outside into the hallway and I used a carabiner keychain to secure her to the railing. She was very good and sat and lay down so I could get her fur. We didn't have a huge amount come off but I am glad that the 6 clumps came off our there and not in here! She seemed to enjoy the quality time. I think this may have to be added to the "products we love" page.

As you can see, Leia was unphased by her at-home Furmination

Kisses!

While the Furminator was a bit expensive, consider how much PetsMart charges per Furminator Grooming session. Doing it yourself at home pays off very quickly and can help you bond with your pup. 

11:00PM - Leia just discovered her bone and how great it could be. I first encouraged her to play with it on the floor after petting her for a while and she kinda mouthed it a little, then she caught on and began a chewing frenzy.  In fact, while I was uploading the pictures she went back to her bone and bounced around, pouncing on it. I wish I had caught it on camera. It was the first time she has tried to play.  It was adorable to watch. I can tell she wants to come all the way out of her shell and I am fine if she does. Seeing her bounce for just a few moments was adorable.

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Will it Storm today?

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She's assumed the position. Nap time!

10:00AM - well, Leia continues to begin pushing boundaries but nothing too significant. She is sniffing more things in the house, and complaining a bit more about random things but is doing "stealth whining" (one whine and then wont repeat it for a good while, which makes it hard to correct). Luckily it is quiet, and to me would be the equivalent of murmuring under your breath. She is also getting a little pushy about wanting attention and I am trying to make her realize it is on my terms. I don't mind her asking, but I do mind her pawing at me after I have already moved her off. I want her to respect our space, as we respect hers.

We checked the weather this morning and around 4 PM there is a 40% chance of rain/thunder storms, so around  I did two laps around the lake this morning with her, hoping to wear her out and burn off some of the nervous energy. Around 2:30 to 3 we will have a tranquility treat and another "busted" walk (a walk meant to wear her out).

On the walk we met a Pyrenees Puppy (probably 6 months) and Leia actually wanted to sniff the dog. We also met an old chocolate lab, probably close to 10 years old, and Leia walked right up and sniffed him too, still mostly face to face meetings which I am trying to direct to face the tail instead (normally considered more polite in the dog world). No growls from Leia, both times she sniffed and then was kinda like "ok, lets walk."  We've also been working on not being so afraid of golf carts. For some reason they absolutely freak her out. so we slowly walk in circles near the carts until she can calmly walk past them (or at least not walk by while looking over her shoulder, fearfully).

Leia rolling on the carpet

1:00PM - Went for a second walk... it was just barely misting when we went out. It down poured by the time we were half way around the lake. Leia doesn't mind the rain but we have yet to experience thunder. I gave her a tranquility treat when we got back and she is pretty much out cold right now.

"Am I supposed to be concerned about something?"

"I want chicken curry..."

8:00PM - Well, all that prep and no thunder. Isn't that just how it always happens? We went for a third walk  (again in the rain) but what struck me was when I picked up the closed umbrella Leia jumped backwards. When I knelt down she came back over and seemed to realize I wasn't going to hurt her with it, but it really makes you wonder why she reacted that way. She didn't flee far, she didn't yelp or anything, so I don't think they beat her but maybe someone used to scold her with a news paper or something similar? Who knows, either way I tried to make sure not to scare her with the umbrella when it opened (a big hovering rainbow disk was disconcerting enough for her).

At dinner tonight she sat, coveting my food but kept her place lying on the floor, hoping I might decide to share. Sorry honey, no curry for you. When I was finishing my dinner she walked across the room and bumped her kibble bag with her nose, as if to say "ok, I was a good girl, now it's my turn!" Don't worry Leia, I remember. She enjoyed dinner in her kennel and has been resting comfortably ever sense.

On a random note, we received our  Free Cesar Millan DVD today. I haven't had time to watch it yet (darn you homework!) but I look forward to it.  It discusses how to walk you dog instead of your dog walking you, ways to keep your dog from running away, and the importance of exercise for your dog's overall health. It also, of course, helps you become a pack leader, which is important since dogs are pack creatures.

Part of being a good dog owner  and pet parent is being the leader of your pack. Do I agree with everything Cesar says? No. I don't agree with 100% of what anyone says (minus God himself maybe), but I think Cesar has quite a few great points and earning your dog's respect as leader, owner, and caregiver is an important part of bonding with your pet.



(Today we added a new page to the blog: Products We Love which we will continue to add to as we go. Am I telling you "buy this?" No. Do I get anything if you purchase those things? Nope. Just letting you know what we've tried and liked.)

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Our Tuesday Update

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Well, This morning we got up, got Leia and I fed, went for a walk and then I had her settle into her crate, mainly because I had to run an errand. As always I waited a while after she was in the crate to leave, to ensure she doesn't associate "get in the crate" with "I'm leaving you behind." After I gave her the Kong I just quietly walked into the garage. Of course, that action was followed but the garage door opening, the car starting and then the door closing again, and I think this is what upset Leia.

She cried for 15 minutes, even howling at one point, and then settled down. I didn't go back in, I wanted to let her realize I wasn't coming back just cause she was crying. For the rest of the time I was gone she was fine and rested well. Another factor which could have influenced her behavior was that I tried 1/2 of the normal amount of tranquility treat. I get the feeling I wont be doing that again right away.

When I came home we kept to the normal waiting and ignoring routine. Once I did let her out she tried to finish her Kong, and I let her have it until she walked away. Then I took it up and refroze the small remaining amount. So today had that little set back of her crying, but I will keep leaving and returning, so she gets used to it and learns that just because I leave doesn't mean I left her.

4:00PM - It's been a slow day. I've noticed sometimes Leia puts her mouth on things but doesn't chew. I correct her each time and she doesn't mess with that thing again. Not to worried about it yet because it seems more like she is exploring than trying to chew or destroy.

I'm still not convinced she doesn't have a URI, no major symptoms but she is sometimes panting at times where I don't see a good reason for it, and  then rarely coughing, like twice a day. I'm watching her like a hawk though, just in case. Again, could just be mommy jitters.

The next week ought to be interesting as it appears like there is at least a 30% chance of thunder storms every day from tomorrow to next Tuesday... awesome... Here is hoping she is not super terrified of storms or I will be picking up some large ace bandages and finding an old T to basically swaddle her (compression therapy). Be Brave Leia!  

4:40PM - Hehe, Not sure what Leia was dreaming about but this low rumble came from under the coffee table. She was apparently having a growling dream.

6:20PM  - Leia didn't like the windy weather. She is a bit spooked by moving trees which to me probably doesn't bode well for how she will do in thunder storms... (Oh boy... and we have a week of the coming up. Joy!). She got to see the front gate move today. I had her stand with me near the gate so she saw it wasn't going to hurt her. On our walk we met a tiny 8 week old pug puppy. Leia sniffed her a little and then was kinda done with it. The Pug was over joyed at her new super-sized friend.

Yet again Leia found that one dern piece of crust on our walk and yet again I fussed at her and her, putting a finger in her mouth and flicking it out. She does surprisingly well with this and doesn't protest. This is the third time she has picked something up and I've removed it from her mouth and each time she is very gentle and seems to get that she isn't supposed to be messing with whatever is in her mouth.

10:00PM - Well, the good news is I have discovered that if Leia takes something and I scold her she will drop it, But really Leia, stealing the paper towel that was sitting right in front of me? Like I wasn't gonna notice your big butt lab head in front of both the comp and the TV? It's hard to keep a straight face when she is being that silly but I played the tough mama role well. I guess that puts us in the "stealing" phase of getting comfortable in her new home. I'll keep watching her like a hawk. Just cause it's in the house doesn't mean it should be in your belly you silly girl...

Read our next chapter together! - Will it Storm today?

The Test of Monday

A little lost? Read our last chapter: Sunday

10:00AM - I am trying to make this morning rather relaxed and easy on Leia as I know later might be a bit stressful. Three little worries this morning, she came out of the crate limping. Concerned I had her lie down and checked the back leg (her left, my right when facing her). Lucily it was just a little cramp and was over quickly. She has been exercising a lot more than she did in the shelter, and I imagine this is a little rough on her as her body adjusts. Second, her ears seem to be itching her  a little. When we go to the vet we'll get it checked out, if it is still persisting.  Also, right before we went outside she couched once and a snot ball landed on a file folder (ew!). I am hoping that was it but will be watching her in case it is kennel cough or a URI (upper respiratory infection), both of which are common in shelter dogs. Otherwise she has been doing pretty good this morning. She ate most of her breakfast and is entering her crate more on her own (today she is getting a bit of kibble each time she walks all the way in on her own).

Her first time choosing to be in the crate.
Notice, the door is op

--OMG she did it! She just walked in her crate and lay down, resting all on her own, even with the crate door open. GOOD GIRL LEIA! So proud of her, this is a pretty big step toward becoming comfortable with her crate.

I had corrected her (very gently) a few times from laying right next to the other side of the sofa and simply kinda claimed it as my space. She then decided the next best way to be close was her crate. Now she is sleeping soundly in there.

She also licked at her bone (Nylabone) a little today. Hopefully she will come to love it. It is chicken "flavored" and I put peanut butter on it the first day, hoping to encourage her to try playing with it. I did notice a few teeth marks on it today, not many, but a few.

Resting Comfortably in her crate, door open.

 Slowly Leia is coming out of her shell. Of course this does come with a few draw backs, we are having to work a little harder at the walk because she is beginning to want to lead. I keep putting her back at my heel and she eventually settles in to a good stride. Oh well, I can work with this. I made the Kong and put it in the freezer so hopefully it will last a bit longer when she gets it later. Life is an adventure, I know this evening will be.

1:00PM -  Leia has chosen to go in her crate several more times. In a bit I am going to try to wear her out soon. I am thinking I will set up the house like I do at night, where the dining room light is on but that's it, and maybe leave the TV in the bedroom on with the door closed. I am REALLY hoping she is able to hold up through my class and that she doesn't somehow break out, or scream and howl the entire time.

2:30PM - Oops!  Leia went to walk into her crate again and her back paw clipped her water dish, hurling water everywhere. I put her blanket in the dryer, cleaned up the water, and then encouraged her to come into the crate a few times, to ensure it hadn't spooked her from wanting to go in the crate. She was fine and is again, resting in her crate comfortably, even if she doesn't have her blankie. She was fine for the short time I packed my book bag, put it in the car, and moved the car from the garage. I left her in the house for that, and when I came back she was sitting in front of the door, a little nervous but not panicking.  I calmly came back in and returned to doing things around the house. I am really, really hoping she is ok tonight. I put a little sign outside the door to let people know about the noise. I am also really hoping this sign doesn't put her in danger (like of someone breaking in) so I will take it down after I return, hopefully not needing it again depending on how she does.

Crossing my fingers and getting ready to begin the "pre-leaving" process. 3:00 is big walk time. Then crate with a tranquility treat and before I leave I'll add the Kong and quietly leave. I so badly want this to go well for her.

7:00PM - So, I am back from class and am one proud mama! What did Leia do while I was gone?

Our Good Girl, out of the crate and proud.

4:20 - I have had her in the crate for about 30 minutes, I give her the kong and her dinner and leave.
4:30 - (check in with skype from this point on) One little whine, not thrilled I left, but she then starts licking the kong a little.
4:35 - mild Kong interest
4:40 - interest in dinner
5:00 - Asleep
5:30 - Asleep
6:30 - half asleep
6:50 - awakened by the sound of the garage door, alert but quiet. I was able to enter the house calmly and she wagged her tail. I tried not to make a big deal about coming home but damn i am so proud I could squeal. I will let her out after this update (so coming home isn't a huge deal) but I am insanely happy with her.

Now that I am home she is more interested in working the kong (which I think is still mostly full) but it's nice to know she was able to be left alone for over 2 hours without a major issue. Such a sigh of relief but lets hope it keeps up.

8:00PM - We just finished a pretty good walk. Leia's Shelter personality is starting to come back out (which is a good thing for the most part). She is pulling at the leash a bit more but to me, that is easy to work on. On the plus side, she is sniffing more, she is walking up to people to say hello more, and she seems to be seriously considering taking me into the lake, if not for the sake of swimming, than to harass the local water foul.  She saw the ducks this evening and I about lost my left arm.

She is also starting to get the walk leaving and returning routine down, which is: come to the carpet right before the tiles (which are in front of the door), sit, get the leash on, remain sitting while I unlock and open the door (do not get up, I will tell you when), I say "come Leia" and she is allow to exit the door and pause, I come out, and lock up the door, time to walk (where she is generally expected to stay close, and if I don't want to stop we don't), when we return she can walk up to the door, sniff it but then is expected to sit, I open the door, she walks in and sits (in the same place where she sits at the start), get the leash off, I say alright, she can go. Complicate? A bit. Full of safeguards so she doesn't break out, run crazy, drag me out kicking and screaming, or get hit by a car? Absolutely!

Her tail is up a lot more on her walk and she is sniffing both the air and ground, which to me, says she is getting comfortable and realizing that this home isn't going anywhere. Funds are definitely tight right now: we need printer ink, we still have her first vet visit coming up, and that will include (probably 6m to a year's worth) of preventatives but she is family now, and we look out for family, even if that does mean Mom and Dad will be cooking in all next month and probably enjoying any movie in the form of an already owned DVD but come on, we have Leia, and while it would be nice to have toilet paper too (just kidding, we're not that desperate yet), I am happy with the choice we made.

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Sunday

A little lost? Read our last chapter: Crate Training / Separation Anxiety Training Begins 

A picture from Leia's first day home,
glad the 3rd day is going better!

7:00 AM - I just woke up about 30 minutes ago. Last night was awesome. We went for our night walk, came in, put her in her crate, and then I slowly went about cutting off lights except for the dinning room dimmer, which I set to low. I then walked into the bedroom (with the TV on in there, as I had earlier in the day) and flopped in bed. Sure enough, within a minute or two I heard the whining protest so I stood up, walked to the door and gave one good "eh eh!" Silence. Silence all night. I slept like a baby. She knows I'm up right now, she's heard me get out of bed and move around, but still, silence. Oh thank you Leia, Thank you!

8:00 AM - Well our walk went pretty well, we met a dog on our walk (kinda looked a little mastiff like but short and stocky. Not quite sure what it was but he was very wiggly and happy). We let the dogs meet but within a few minutes Leia's tail lowered and I heard two little growls come from her. Didn't know she had it in her, maybe he was too over whelming. He was sniffing rather intently. Either way, we will work on it. She was good with the dogs she met in PetsMart yesterday. I know I want her to remain good with dogs, it would be nice to be able to go to a dog park or socialize with friend's pets.

9:00 AM -  Looking up compression therapy and TTouch therapy. Getting certified in TTouch is probably out of the question for now, as it is almost 1k (yikes!) but they do have a video/book set which could help me learn how to help Leia and that is about $40 (It seems like $40 is the magic number with dog treatments, thundershirts are around $40, so is the TTouch DVDs. I am wondering if I am really exercising Leia enough. We do go for 3 good walks around the lake but  I think I misinterpreted her panting as tired. Might try double laps and see if we can wear her out a bit more. Today should be either exciting or nerve racking, maybe both. Hang in there Leia, I promise this is for the best.

9:50AM - She's still not eating very well... It worries me a little but I am also trying to trust that if she is really hungry, she'll eat. --Oh my lord...  literally as I was writing this she did something I have NEVER seen her do before. I have been reclaiming my space a little today by not letting her lie right next to the couch, and when she tries to, I basically walk gently into her so she backs off to sitting in front of the TV. Then what did she do? Go in the bed room and lay in front of the bed.  She walked away and laid down. She is still very attentive to what I am doing, but  she gave me space.  Her ears are itching her, not sure if this is because of the few remaining fleas which I assume are still there but cant seem to find, or if maybe something is bothering her.  I think I am over analyzing it. She's a dog, dog's scratch.  Well she just came back in and tried to walk on over, I held out a "stop" hand and she went right back in the bedroom. Ha! Good girl. I wish I could say it but for now just silence. Still on the no touch, talk, eye contact rule (which I will now call "no TTE"). I kinda want to know what she is doing in there, but her legs seem to say she is laying down, possibly in her relaxed position.

3:30PM - Well our visit with G went well, Leia is fine with dogs around her, but when they start sniffing she gets a little growly. She can be corrected but she's just a bit like an old lady, a little crotchety.  Before our visit I gave her a good walk around the neighborhood. She is still beat and is out cold right now. She also barked at G's daughter when she first came out (more of kinda a "what's that" bark) but we corrected and she realized that (essentially) I approve of her being here, Leia settled down. Gisele thinks Leia will need a good pack leader or leaders (which I strive to be) and that she is lovely, a good dog, and just needs direction. I agree. Leia is in her crate now (she had free time this morning) and once she has settled down for a bit I am going to go and speak with the neighbors and ask them to help me out with her if possible by letting me know if they hear her crying. This way maybe they wont be quite so offended with her for crying when I go out tomorrow.

4:20PM - well I tried to warn our neighbors and give them a little card to ask for their assistance as we train her. I left about 4:05 and when I returned at 4:15 she was still fine. Also, to figure out what I just learned, please check my next post "Leia Skypes."
I think I've come up with a plan for Monday:
____1. Wear her out. Really long walk tomorrow afternoon.
____2. Tranquility treat.
____3. Check in with Skype at break. (again see the post above to figure out how).
____4. Pray.
It seems like Leia is settling down and settling into our home. Here is hoping progress continues.

9:55PM - Well it's almost bed time here so I have her back in the crate and settling down. We tried a tranquility treat right around 7:30 to 8 PM and she seems nice and lazy. Hoping it works wonders tomorrow. I think she gets half about an hour before, and the other half chopped up in the kong along with peanut butter,  milkbones, and maybe some chicken I might just make my own kong filling like pulverize some treats and mix in some chunks of goodness. I'm not feeling my best tonight so it's been a slow evening but she's been good. She got a massage before kennel time, then some down time, then we tossed one treat in the crate, she followed it in, and then got a second (please note, I bought the "small breed" milkbones and break them in half, so she chases 1/2 in and then gets the other 1/2, that way she doesn't get too fat and happy on training.)
I also made one mistake today. I thought "maybe running will be her joy" so I tried saying "come on Leia" and running a little with her. I should have waited. She was imediatly nervious and on gaurd, running low and looking over her shoulder as if something was chasing us. I felt like a heel... Sorry honey, I didn't mean to frighten you. She got over it and the rest of our walk went ok, but I think we will be waiting until her confidence blossoms to try running again. Live and learn.

Read our next chapter together! -  The Test of Monday

Leia Skypes

"Just checking in on ya Ma!"

Well, I have figured out how to Skype "with" Leia while I am out to see if she is freaking out or not and I figured, hey, what Dog owner wouldn't like to check and see if their dog with separation anxiety is actually behaving or not.

To Skype your dog you'll need a few things:
____1. A laptop/computer at home with a webcam
____2. A smart phone with skype or a second laptop that can Skype and you can take with you.
____3. 2 Skype accounts (one for you and one your dog).

The laptop/computer that will remain at home will now be referred to as "Your dog's computer." This is the computer your dog's Skype account will be open on. Your computer (the one you are taking with you) will have your personal Skype account on it.


Add your Dog as your friend/contact on Skype, make your dog approve the friendship. Now you can call each other BUT you still have a few steps to go before you can have a good call with your dog.

The next step is to change some settings on your dog's account. Go to: Tools --> Options --> Calls --> Check/click "Answer calls automatically" --> Now a second option which says "Start my video automatically when I am in a call" should appear. Check/click it. Click Save.

Time to test it. Warning: You may want to get help with this, if you are sitting in front of your computer with the other computer/phone, you are going to get feedback. If possible, turn the volume down on your dog's computer to a lower level,  and take your computer/phone in another room. "Voice call" your dog.  What should happen is the video should begin automatically, showing your dog (or whatever your camera is pointed at) and you should be able to hear sound. If you don't have sound, check the mic settings on your dog's computer. If no video, go back through the steps above on your dog's computer and make sure you clicked save, not cancel. Still no video? Make sure you camera is hooked up right. Otherwise, no clue. Sorry.

So, now you should be able to call your dog and see and hear what is going on with him. Make sure the camera is fixed on your dog's crate (in other words, that you can see your dog, in the call), or the area your dog will be staying. (I strongly suggest crate). Another thing to consider. Will you mute your dog's computer or not. Unmuted, you can talk to your dog (be careful with this, it could simply make your dog more upset to hear and not see you. However, it also gives you the potential option to correct. You probably want to test this before you leave "for real") Muted you can't correct, but you also don't have to worry about the sound (of the skype call starting) upsetting your dog.

Before we begin a few suggestions (some of these will repeat information from other posts, sorry.).
____1. Wear you dog out. Give them a good long walk, a game of fetch, whatever your dog likes to do and wears him/her out.
____2. Put your dog in the crate a while before you leave.
____3. Let them settle down. Walk around the house, mess with stuff (your keys, the door lock, the knob, open and shut it a few times, anything that might "set off" your dog's anxiety.) then return to a place that makes the dog calm down. For Leia and I, it's me sitting on the couch or in the bedroom. Repeat a few times, waiting for your dog to calm down each time before starting again, and I mean really calm. For example, I know Leia is really calm when she lays on her side with her head on its side.

On a regular basis you should be messing with these things when you are not going to leave so it desensitizes the dog to it. everything from putting your shoes and coat on (then sitting down and having tea or something), moving your keys from one side of the room to another, opening the door for no reason, going outside and then right back in, opening the garage door for no good reason, anything that seems to make your dog question whether or not you are leaving. The idea here, no one thing means I am leaving 100% of the time. If the only time I ever pick up my keys is when I leave, Leia knows, "keys mean she's leaving me" and she may panic.

____4. When it is time to go, do not make a big deal about it.  Just quietly walk out. Don't look at them, don't say "bye puppy", Nothing. Just go.
____5. At this point you can check in on them with the phone, or whenever you want.  You can also mute your microphone (as a second precaution so your dog doesn't hear something). Up to you.
____6. When you return home two things could happen when you walk in the door.  Your dog could be calmly (or excitedly) waiting but not crying, or you dog could be freaking out. If your dog is freaking out, correct it and then walk away (whether out the door or into a different part of the house is up to you). If your dog is calm, just walk inside with no fuss. In BOTH instances, do not look at your dog. Walk in the door ignoring their existence. If they are fussing then you turn your attention and correct firmly. if they are behaving, great, leave them alone. Walk around the house, turn on the TV, do whatever that isn't acknowledging your dog. No touch, no talk, no eye contact.
____7. When your dog is calm and relaxed, and has been for a while, you can let them out. Don't make a big deal about this, just open the door and walk away. Remember, this is not mean, it is maintaining a calm dog. If they run up to you wiggling and crazy, ignore. If they persist, correct and claim your space.

And while all this may sound overwhelming, you'll find it's simple once you start.

Something to remember, if your dog's computer has a screen saver or a sleep mode which automatically comes on, you might want to disable this before you go out to ensure the computer doesn't go to sleep and prevent you from calling.

So now your dog Skypes. Congrats!

Crate Training / Separation Anxiety Training Begins

A little lost? Read our last chapter:  Welcome Home: Leia's first day 

So in the morning after my research, I called Gisele. She is in charge of the rescue The Dog Liberator, and a good friend who would tell it like it is. I explained what had happened (as best I could with little to no sleep) and she told me I'd have to prepare to be tough, that it was going to be hard, but I could do it. I'd already listened to our baby (yes I mean Leia) cry all night without giving in to her whining, I knew that for her to be happy and healthy in our home, this had to stop. I'd do whatever it took. She gave me several good ideas.

The first, a squirt bottle. Fill it with water, set it on stream (not mist) and if she starts up give her a correction ("eh eh!" or "no") and then one squirt. Once she quieted down, praise her or give her a treat. This way she learns that noise is not ok, and that silence is approved of and rewarded.

The next was a Kong. Before I leave the house, fill it with something tasty, like chicken bits, hotdog, peanut butter, or some special treat that she only gets in her crate, when we leave. Now being in her crate when we leave means special tasty toy. Smart. (I still need to get one). As an alternative, raw marrow bones, about 4-5 inches with all or some of the marrow in it (or refill it with more tasty things). I admit, I am a little concerned with giving a dog a  bone. I have heard horror stories about dogs either swallowing bones or getting fragments stuck in their mouth. Now, the alternative to that is that the first dog I ever owned, Skippy, has a marrow bone that we bought at a pet store and did perfectly fine with it. So we will see I guess. Gisele did warn me that marrow is pretty rich and some dogs get upset tummies (so if we do the marrow bone thing I will probably start with one partially full and save the rest for a refill.)

Then she told me something which made me giggle. An oscillating fan had worked wonders for her blind and deaf dogs because it made them feel like someone was walking past their crate. I laughed out loud as I looked in at Leia, who was laying on the floor, right under one of our fans. Clearly this was a good, good idea for her, even though she isn't blind or deaf, it seems to comfort her, so why not.

Gisele also suggested a TV or music so it isn't a silent house. Another option is a ticking clock for the same reasons, sound. She suggested covering Leia's crate with a sheet which I admit, I haven't tried yet but might work. She also talked about a baby monitor or a walkie-talkie so I can hear if she is crying and then, without coming in the room, say "no" or "eh eh."

She told me to go to our Rescue's Welcome Home page and get a copy of Cesar's DVD (free) for some more tips (obviously it will take a few days to get here.)

She also said I could consider a Thunder Shirt or try to make one at home using an old, tight t-shirt (obviously not so tight that it constricts circulation or causes choking, but tight enough that it hugs like compression therapy), a smaller dog costume, or ace bandages to (again) make a compression vest for her. I have heard amazing things about Thunder shirts and similar compression therapy, so if this continues, we'll be investing in one.

If these things didn't work we talked about an e-collar (which beeps and then vibrates [not shocks]) on command, so if she whines, she gets a warning (beep beep beep) and then a vibration to tell her no. Again, this could be used from another room, so I wouldn't have to reward her with my presence. We are going to try other techniques first, but this could be a smart investment for her. I wont put something on her that I wouldn't put on my self, and I would wear an e-collar.

We also discussed seeing a vet (if we can't get this under control) about a mild sedative to help her relax (like a doggy Paxil) to help her calm down when we leave. Again, we are going to try other measures first, but if we have to we will try meds because I'd rather have her slightly medicated and able to stay in our home  then crying to the point that we get kicked out.

Above all else, we talked about Consistency, Time, and Patience. These are the keys of training any dog to do anything. There will be set backs. Deal with it. It will take time. Fine. BE PATIENT. Leia is new to this. She doesn't understand why I don't like her crying or the severe consequences it could have for us. Those consequences are my problem, not hers. So if I get frustrated, I need to remember to never take it out on her. She only receives "punishment"  (sounds harsh, basically I mean things like "no" and squirt bottle) for things she does (whining, scratching etc) not for my bad mood or frustrations.

"So, how long to I have to stay in here?"

Today I moved the crate beside me (and beside the couch), put a fan gently oscillating back and forth beside the crate, put a tiny bit of peanut butter in her bowl,  and she walked in for the peanut butter. I quietly closed the door and praised her. Sure enough, within a few minutes she whined and I corrected her with a "eh eh" and a squirt of water (just one) and it was like I hit a mute button. After she was quiet for a moment I praised her and gave her a tiny bit of chicken. A few minutes later she whined again. I corrected her again. A few minute later still, she whined and I corrected. We've now been sitting here for over an hour and Leia is quietly resting in her crate.  I've walked out of the room a few times and she will sit up, but remains quiet. I am so encouraged by this. I'll keep pushing the boundaries of her compliance, like staying in the bed room, out of sight, longer, and other things like opening the front door, opening the garage door, picking up my keys, moving my shoes, putting them on, taking them off, and maybe staying in the garage for a bit.

For a lot of pets, behavioral problems are what land them back in a shelter. I'm not giving up on her. It's her second day in the house and tonight will be her second night, she deserves some understanding. I mean after all, her last owners (who she'd known all her life) left her in a shelter, and then right when she was getting comfortable in the shelter, she came here. I will give her understanding but I wont caudal her: "I get you are afraid Leia, but that is unacceptable here. Welcome home, now join the program." I will keep updating with her progress but pray for us, Monday is my first day of school and I am hoping, praying she wont cry for the 2-5 hours I am in class at night (awesome timing on my part). Her Daddy, my husband, is still up north, so we have no option, we have until Monday to get this down pat.

Progress, Leia Relaxing with her fan, her (finished) food,
and her big water dish

Updates

2:00PM - we just went for a walk around the lake. All business handled. Did well on her lead. We came home and she ran to her crate for water, then stopped at the door, looked at me, and waited. I went to the kitchen, put a dab of peanut butter on a blunt knife, and put it in the bowl through the side of the cage. She looked at me, suspiciously, and then walked in. I praised her as I shut the door and so far, no protest. She just went in, at her peanut butter, had some water and laid down, enjoying her fan. Good job baby girl!

3:30PM - Ok, so I got a shower and she did ok. When I came out she was whining a little so I corrected and then went back int he room for a bit. I'm about to try to catch a nap, and I did something a bit unorthodox. I made Leia a Skype account. No Joke. Why? It's is a two way baby monitor. I can leave the computer  with Skype on, and take my smart phone in the other room so I can hear if she starts whining and correct immediately. Lets see how this goes. She's had the cage covered for a while now. No fuss.

I got a bit of a nap. We made it 47 minutes with me in house (1 correction I think) and out of sight but I am not sure if she realized I wasn't in the room. I did, however, try walking out of the house a few times. The longest I stayed out with no correction was 5 minutes. We did have to correct once but I didn't have to spray her, telling her "eh eh" and showing her the spray bottle was enough. Good progress but a long way to go. I am hoping bed time tonight is more successful than last night.

8:50 PM -  Well, today has been busy busy. We did a lot of practice today with going in the crate and staying there quietly. We went to PetsMart and tried walking around and meeting new people in hopes of building her confidence. She was so nervous sometimes that she was shaking but her tail told the tail. There were a few times when her tail was up, curled and happy, but plenty of times when it was low and a bit stressed. I am proud of her, not once did she panic or try to cower or hide. Tonight, per the advise of Gisele, I have her in the crate and am completely ignoring her (no talking, no eye contact). She whined once when I first went in the other room but one verbal correction and she calmed down. I have been ignoring her for a while now, and fed her dinner (through the  bars, no words, no touch, no eye contact.) She ignored it for a while and I went on to make my own dinner, then take it back in the bedroom. I've heard her picking at her dinner a few times now and the last time I was in the kitchen I checked the reflection off the microwave and she was laying down, head on it's side (her very calm position.)

I have learned she has a few different positions which are tell about whats going on inside her:
1. Is she panting? - If yes, she may be nervous
2. Check her legs, are they trembling at all? If so, also anxious. This is a more rare sign with her, the first time I noticed it was in PetsMart.
3. Ears - Flat back, possibly anxious.
----------Up and looking at me with out my calling her or initiating contact =  possibly nervous attentive. (often seen when standing or sitting up)
4. Laying down positions:
---------- laying with all 4 legs under her, head up, ears up, panting - nervous or attentive tired
----------laying with her feet off to the side, head straight on but laying on the cage - more relaxed than the prior laying stance.
----------laying with her feet off to the side and her head laying down on it's side - relaxed.

I admit, I am a little burnt out. Her anxiety was rubbing off on me in Petsmart and I felt like I should be panting. Probably because I knew what needed to be done by Monday, and how far we still have to go.I think it also didn't help that I felt a little trapped by her. I couldn't leave the house or she'd scream, which might upset the neighbors, and we could get in trouble and- can you sense the emotional spiral I was on? No wonder she couldn't keep calm. Remember what I said earlier about not punishing her for the consequences I have to deal with? Well that is what this evening is about. I am out of the room from her, and am de-stressing. So far I have only had to correct her whining twice. Before bed we have one more walk and then we begin night time routine.

While at Petsmart I was convinced by an employee to try "Blue: Tranquility" treats. They use herbs to naturally calm dogs or help them remain calm. Haven't tried them yet, I want to be able to observe her to make sure they agree with her. We also picked up a Kong (hopefully it will become her "Yey they're leaving and I get my special toy" treat), food, and some basic treats (honestly, so I can bribe her into the crate. She goes in very well when treats are involved.)

Review of Day 1 Training: All in all, Day 1 of training was a success, in my book, because she is learning that the crate is her space, that she gets good things in there, and that I am "allowed" to be out of sight. I had my little anxiety meltdown and now I am getting past it. Tomorrow we go see Gisele and get her take on it after seeing it in person. Is this where I want to be? Of course not, I'd love to be to the point where she is calmly and quietly able to sit in her crate until I return from going out where ever it is I want to go out to, But for now, this is good.  I mean in 1 day we have massively improved crate training and I might actually be able to sleep tonight! Sleep is good in my book.

PS: Night walk went fairly well with no talk, touch, eye contact. Her tail was up for most of the walk. Only downside was she tried to eat something in the side yard... I think I was able to put a finger in her mouth and flick it all out. Guess we'll find out.

Read our next chapter together! - Sunday